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Child Custody Laws in Washington

How courts in Washington decide child custody and parenting time, the best-interest factors, and whether parents must take a class or try mediation.

Short answer: Washington uses parenting plans instead of custody labels. Subject to limits for abuse, domestic violence and similar problems (RCW 26.09.191), the court allocates decision-making and sets a residential schedule. RCW 26.09.187

Child custodyWashington uses parenting plans instead of custody labels. Subject to limits for abuse, domestic violence and similar problems (RCW 26.09.191), the court allocates decision-making and sets a residential schedule. Residential factors include the strength and stability of the child's relationship with each parent (given the greatest weight), the parents' knowing and voluntary agreements, each parent's past and future performance of parenting functions, the child's emotional needs and development, relationships with siblings and others and involvement in school and activities, the wishes of the parents and of a child mature enough to express reasoned and independent preferences, and each parent's work schedule. No fixed age is set for the child's preference.
Emergency and temporary custodyIn a divorce, a parent asking for a temporary parenting order files and serves a proposed temporary parenting plan by motion, supported by a sworn declaration about the child's caregiving history, schedules and any safety concerns; the court may enter a temporary parenting plan on a showing of necessity. A party may also ask for a temporary restraining order, including an order not to remove a child from the court's jurisdiction. The court can issue a temporary restraining order without notice to the other party only if the sworn evidence shows irreparable injury could result before the other party has time to respond.
Temporary orders and restraining orders: https://app.leg.wa.gov/RCW/default.aspx?cite=26.09.060
Parenting class or mediationParenting seminars are set by local court rules, so whether one is required depends on the county. Any such rule must not require opposing parties to attend together, must waive the seminar or offer an alternative when there is domestic violence or abuse or attendance is not in the children's best interests, and may waive it for good cause.

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FAQ

How is child custody decided in Washington?
Washington uses parenting plans instead of custody labels. Subject to limits for abuse, domestic violence and similar problems (RCW 26.09.191), the court allocates decision-making and sets a residential schedule. Residential factors include the strength and stability of the child's relationship with each parent (given the greatest weight), the parents' knowing and voluntary agreements, each parent's past and future performance of parenting functions, the child's emotional needs and development, relationships with siblings and others and involvement in school and activities, the wishes of the parents and of a child mature enough to express reasoned and independent preferences, and each parent's work schedule. No fixed age is set for the child's preference.
How do you get emergency custody in Washington?
In a divorce, a parent asking for a temporary parenting order files and serves a proposed temporary parenting plan by motion, supported by a sworn declaration about the child's caregiving history, schedules and any safety concerns; the court may enter a temporary parenting plan on a showing of necessity. A party may also ask for a temporary restraining order, including an order not to remove a child from the court's jurisdiction. The court can issue a temporary restraining order without notice to the other party only if the sworn evidence shows irreparable injury could result before the other party has time to respond.
Do you have to take a parenting class to divorce in Washington?
Parenting seminars are set by local court rules, so whether one is required depends on the county. Any such rule must not require opposing parties to attend together, must waive the seminar or offer an alternative when there is domestic violence or abuse or attendance is not in the children's best interests, and may waive it for good cause.

General legal information, not legal advice. Laws change and local rules can differ; check the linked official source or talk to a lawyer about your situation.